Patrick Dempsey, beloved by millions for his role as Derek “McDreamy” Shepherd on “Grey’s Anatomy,” has captured the hearts of fans for nearly two decades. But his journey to stardom began long before he became McDreamy, dating back to his breakout role in “Can’t Buy Me Love” in 1987. Now, in 2023, Dempsey not only continues to captivate audiences with his on-screen charisma but is also recognized as the “Sexiest Man Alive.” As he reflects on this unexpected honor, he does so with his trademark humor, saying, “I’ve always been the bridesmaid!” It’s this lighthearted perspective that embodies his genuine, down-to-earth nature, endearing him to fans of all ages.
In an exclusive interview with People, Dempsey expresses his gratitude for the recognition, emphasizing its potential to make a positive impact. This commitment to positivity is deeply rooted in the Dempsey Center, an institution he founded in honor of his late mother, which provides support for cancer patients and their loved ones. Despite his newfound title, Dempsey anticipates his children’s playful teasing, saying, “Which is good, they keep me young.”
At 57 years old, Dempsey’s life extends far beyond the spotlight and his philanthropic endeavors alone. He cherishes his roles as a loving husband to Jillian Fink, a makeup artist and clean beauty line founder, and a dedicated father to his children: Talula, 21, and 16-year-old twins Sullivan and Darby. Additionally, his passion for architecture and race-car driving offers a glimpse into the multi-faceted life of the Sexiest Man Alive.
The Dempseys’ Former ‘Communal’ Haven
In 2014, Architectural Digest took us inside the warm and artfully decorated home that Dempsey and Fink shared with their three young children in Malibu, California. Designed by renowned architect Frank Gehry in 1968, the rhomboidal corrugated-metal-clad live/work space underwent a remarkable transformation from an atelier to a family domicile while retaining its bohemian charm.
The house became a communal space when the Dempseys made it their own. Under the guidance of landscape designer Scott Shrader, the outdoor area was transformed into a family fun zone complete with a broad lawn for soccer games, an alfresco kitchen with a pizza oven, and enclosures for their menagerie of animals, including chickens, miniature donkeys, rabbits, goats, pigs, and a rescued African tortoise. Fink’s passion for organic gardening even led to the conversion of the Glasscocks’ riding arena into planting beds for various vegetables and flowers.
Describing the residence, Fink affectionately stated, “The house is very warm and communal, and all the vibrant spaces that Gehry devised really inspire creativity.” From the cozy living room adorned with Brenda Antin’s chaise longues to the vibrant outdoor dining space designed by Shrader, every corner of the former Dempsey home exudes warmth and creativity. The garden, with its raised beds and outdoor amenities, reflects not just the Dempseys’ taste but their love for nature and the simple joys of life.
Dempsey’s Homes and Heartfelt Rituals
Dempsey’s love for architecture can be traced back to his childhood, where Lego houses ignited his passion for construction. His homes, whether a mid-century modern abode in California, a traditional stone house in Maine, or a cozy ski chalet in the mountains, each represent a chapter in his life’s journey. Constantly changing things up and striving for a cool aesthetic, Dempsey’s newest addition to his collection is a home in Malibu that is currently undergoing remodeling.
While chaos ensues during the remodeling process, one thing remains a constant in Dempsey’s kitchen—an essential coffee maker. As a man of diverse tastes, his favorite gadget transcends the ordinary—it’s a pizza oven. When it comes to winding down at night, Dempsey has different bedtime routines, ranging from listening to books on tape to finding comfort in change. Yet, his favorite “room” is not a room in the traditional sense—it’s the outdoor patio. With its breathtaking view of the canyon and enchanting play of light throughout the day, it serves as a testament to his appreciation for designing outdoor spaces.
Travel holds a special place in Dempsey’s heart, and each trip leaves a tangible mark on his home. Artwork collected from different cultures serves as a reminder of the diverse experiences he has had. Additionally, certain objects within his homes hold sentimental value. Vintage cars, like the 356, are cherished both as transportation and functional design pieces. Antiques collected since childhood find their sanctuary in his Maine residence, with a late 17th-century armoire and chairs standing as testaments to the enduring charm of well-crafted pieces.
For Dempsey, renovating older homes is not just about aesthetics but about being a caretaker and custodian. It’s a journey of bringing these homes back to life, one that he finds incredibly rewarding. From vision to execution, it’s a labor of love that speaks to his deep appreciation for the past and his desire to create spaces that are full of life and beauty.
Patrick Dempsey’s journey from beloved heartthrob to philanthropist and lover of architecture showcases the many facets of his personality. From his genuine and down-to-earth nature to his commitment to positivity, Dempsey continues to captivate audiences both on and off-screen. Whether gracing the headlines as the “Sexiest Man Alive” or leaving an indelible mark on the homes he calls his own, Dempsey’s enduring charm and zest for life make him a true Hollywood icon.
